There will be a slight hiss near the compressor, at the orifice tube, usually audible for a short time after the car is shut off. This is normal, resulting from the pressurized liquid squirting through the orifice to the low pressure side.
Any other hisses warrant closer investigation. These compressors are known for "belly leaks" -- the seam between the two casting halves is pretty fragile. It is very important to torque the mounting bolts to spec in stages to prevent stress on this joint. Other possibilities are the o-rings sealing the lines in/out of the compressor, the rubber of the lines themselves, the crimp joints and the compressor shaft seal. Did you add UV dye or have access to an electronic leak detector?
As you already discovered, a warm accumulator is a sign of undercharging. When the system is properly charged, the evaporator inlet line and the outlet line up to and including the accumulator should be approximately equally cold. The accumulator allows any residual liquid to evaporate off, so if the line out of the accumulator is also cold, you are probably overcharged. Weighing the charge is more precise, but the line temps are a good "rule of thumb" guide.